Body Language and the Magic Movements
How to read body languages
How to read body languages depends on the person and how you perceive things in life. If you are searching for a specific meaning, then likely you will see this meaning in the way the body moves. Yet if you want the facts, thus you will search deeper into the person to see what you come up with.
There are many types of body languages conveyed everyday. No matter where you look you can see a person’s body move as they speak, move, sit, stand, lie down and so forth. If a person is lying down with his hand backwards on his forehead, likely he is either dreaming or thinking about something he always wanted to know or see.
At what time you see a person staring off into the distant air and nothing is in view, the person may be daydreaming or else visualizing the scenery around him. What is it you want to see?
Body languages are either verbal or not. If the body is in a position you can determine by glance an overall view of what the person may be feeling. Body languages express feelings, thoughts and emotions, yet the words are the enforcers. The body languages are the backers.
What are body languages? How can you read the languages spoken from the body? If you see a child out in the yard walking with his head down and seem to be wandering nowhere, he is probably lonely and wants someone to play with him. This is a sign of attention seeker.
A person that laughs a lot even if the situation is funny or not may be seeking attention, deranged in the mind, or what have you. The person is probably deranged in the mind if he or she laughs while someone is telling a bone chilling story about someone getting hurt in the picture.
It depends on what you are seeing and what you want to see, but some people believe that if a person is rubbing his eyes it is a sign of disbelief or the person is in doubt. If a person is rubbing their eyes I am going to ask if they have something in their eyes or if they suffer hay fever. If the person responds then I know what the person is feeling, since he told me in his own words what is going on. I am not going to jump to any conclusions as to what his body is expressing.
Some people believe if a person clasps the hands behind the back that the person is angry, apprehensive or frustrated. I seen many people act out in this gesture and they were relaxing, or getting in a position that made them feel comfortable.
Yet other people may see a person rest his hands on the head and look down with the eyes, and think he is bored. I’ve seen this gesture many times and knew that the person was thinking hard, resting, or else considering what the other person was saying.
Most people may feel if you are not looking a person in the eyes while speaking that the person is ignoring you, bored with your conversation and the like. The truth is people often listen and hear better while handling other tasks and communicating. I won’t spend all my time looking someone in the eyes as I speak, simply because I have other tasks on my agenda, thus I can still hear what they are saying as they speak. Of course at an interview I would look the person in the eyes.
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